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Ways to grow change

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"You have to ask yourself", what is the root? before I start, if you are reading my blog for the first time and you've not read the rest it would be really great if you do. because we've made a little journey which you would love to be in but if you don't want to it's ok I'll just summarize. "walking the distance" I've been writing about "self development" by developing the mind. but first before climbing a tree you must first start from the bottom and that's is where we are starting from. if a tree is not well developed it's means is not getting enough nutrients and water and that is done by the root so the Same with people. if you have a problem you have to start from the root. Sometimes we try to change, when we see that we have a problem. but, we see ourselves turning in circles like we are in a loop. so now we are going to try to break the loop. but, before we keep going you must have faith in yourself. they're are ...

Acceptance

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After the search within yourself after knowing yourself, knowing your fault then you ask yourself what is the next step?, what can I do to get better?. Some people Know their problems but they are always in denial telling themselves what they want to hear. they keep saying "I can change anytime I want", "I am not an addict", "I am not a procastinator". they keep telling themselves what they want to hear "it's just a little problem I can change anytime I want", I can become better. but, deep down they know it's a lie.  you've done it, quit sitting and regretting, stop telling yourself you will stop then end up doing it over again. sometimes people would try to change but they will keep ending up where they started and also sometimes self hatred starts and sometimes some people get tired of feeling guilty and they just stop feeling it. giving their selves excuses about what they are doing being ok. but deep down they know what the...