Secrets to a peaceful mind

After the search within yourself after knowing yourself, knowing your fault then you ask yourself what is the next step?, what can I do to get better?. Some people Know their problems but they are always in denial telling themselves what they want to hear. they keep saying "I can change anytime I want", "I am not an addict", "I am not a procastinator". they keep telling themselves what they want to hear "it's just a little problem I can change anytime I want", I can become better. but, deep down they know it's a lie.  you've done it, quit sitting and regretting, stop telling yourself you will stop then end up doing it over again. sometimes people would try to change but they will keep ending up where they started and also sometimes self hatred starts and sometimes some people get tired of feeling guilty and they just stop feeling it. giving their selves excuses about what they are doing being ok. but deep down they know what the

A lot of people talk about becoming the best version of themselves, trying to reach new heights but they see themselves failing and they don't know why. the truth is that they are trying to develop their body(their house) but before building a house a foundation most be layed because no matter how much you try building a house without foundation it's collapses even if you succeed it Will eventually fall. the Same with people, developing yourself without starting from the root the most crucial place of your body the mind without attaining peace of mind you will never grow. will just keep running around in circles and keep asking what am I doing wrong. "The stronger the root, the bigger the tree" Breaking the loop is hard but to move forward and improve, the loop has to be broken. your development has to start from your mind (your root). change is hard but what makes you strong is the ability to push through.  but the first thing about change and dev

In my last post I talked about achieving greatness through peace of mind. We should make peace of mind our major priority, in the journey to greatness peace of mind and constant development should be a priority. "An unstable is mind is incapable of achieving anything" so our first step to greatness should be peace of mind. The mind has an affinity for anything you feed it. so we feed it with good food  and like a child if you don't feed it, it won't grow and if you feed it too fast it throws up. Feed it slowly and gently with positive mind food. Another step to peace of mind is projection. we should learn to project beauty at all time and in any situation we should be like a sunset. This sunset was taken at Edo State, Nigeria. A sunset I an ultimate symbol of peace,  because of it's undying ability to project beauty and calmness. We should be like the sunset, we should project only positive response to anything around us through beauty and calmness.

Everyone has an hidden greatness in them. The moment you start eploiting it, your expectations will become expressions. When we where young there always that dream of being the greatest and at a certain age we start losing hope on the dreams, off course some of the dreams where almost Impossible fantasies but there was that age when you knew what you wanted. That age where you feel it's all planned out and as time goes by the expectation reduces. That when most people give up and settle with the little they see. The reason why we give up is because of the wrong choices we started making at our early age, the time we used chasing after what wasn't for us. We searched for quick money, fame, desires. we enjoyed the future at the past. We started harvesting the little seed we had just planted instead of waiting for it's growth. People say that life is too short enjoy it. but, when you enjoy it now what will you enjoy later instead of enduring the suffer now and enjoy late